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The Original You (24 pg. PDF book or 41 min Audio book) discusses who you really are from amid an almost numerous possibility of inner as well as outer voices, all of which may claim to be you. Developed as a supportive companion and reminder to topics discussed in counseling; however, it is written to be understood even if you have never come to counseling. Allow yourself to understand the magic of who you really are by reading this vital declaration of you, which will help you realize that your answers are to be found in a wonderful place within you. 

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A True Perfection (28 pg. PDF book, or 59 min audio book) thoroughly explores our culture’s love/hate relationship with perfectionism, and through the exploration the book provides a practical and viable alternative to the typical route. Learn why ‘perfectionism’ is harmful, destructive, exhausting, and ultimately a total and complete waste of time and energy.   Better yet, discover what to do instead by approaching ‘perfectionism’ from a completely different angle. You may be surprised at what you learn, and how simple yet effective and welcome the change can be. Allow yourself to heal from the consequences of perfectionism by realizing that there really is a different approach which is realistically within your reach.

The Door to Healing and Beyond, Second Edition (460 pg. PDF book) takes you on an adventurous path of self-discovery and healing that starts you out in a prison cell. From there you meet a tiny bird who then takes you on a trek of understanding as you experiences scenarios that teach you the importance of listening to the inner guidance found within you. This healing journey involves learning what to listen to and what not to listen to, identifying your 'true self', attaining a clarified direction and purpose, maintaining positive changes, overcoming disabling self-talk, addressing and resolving inner conflicts, developing greater self-confidence, and even developing a greater sense of yourself in connection with others around you. Understanding your ‘true self’ eliminates the need for perfectionism, competition, or other harmful modes of self comparison. The book presents helpful tools which allow you to become who and what you are meant to be.

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The Problem Partner (32 pg. PDF or 64 min. audio book) discusses what you can do to ‘influence’ positive changes in the behavior of your ‘problem’ partner. First, we look at you, the ‘change motivated’ partner and discuss what needs to occur within yourself to open the door to this quiet ability. Then we look at various ideas to help you realize the power within you to bring about changes within others – such powers as ‘influence’ and ‘self-control’. Several case examples are used to help you better understand how the ideas and ‘techniques’ can be applied. All ideas and techniques are in harmony with ‘Natural Law’ and are simplified into something I call ‘Self-law’. Self-Law is introduced  as the one thing you to need to learn in order to control yourself as you seek to bring about positive changes in your partner and the world at large around you. Any other type of control over others causes you to become the ‘problem partner’, which is really not what we want, is it?

Understanding Interpersonal Boundaries (35 pg. PDF book, from a chapter in "The Parent's Book of Powers") sends you on journey to understand the theory of interpersonal boundaries called ‘Natural Law’.  ‘Natural Law’ helps you understand what you can and can’t expect from yourself and others, prior to and during relationships. Such awareness and understanding is essential in establishing the self-discipline and confidence necessary for successful mutually beneficial relationships. Understanding the theory of 'Natural Law' is also important in order to avoid being snagged by pesky guilt-trips or other methods designed to rob you of your things – whether tangible or intangible. Having a clear understanding of ‘Natural Law's' interpersonal boundaries is an important part of all journeys of healing, growth and progression.

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The Development of Conscience (68 pg. PDF book) takes you on a path of self-discovery and healing that involves helping you understand the development of conscience. Believe it or not, sometimes our behaviors surprise us in bizarre and strange ways, such as through addictions, affairs, or other deemed unacceptable behaviors. Rather than force change through rigorous ‘external’ motivations it is important that we tap into a more ‘internal’ motivation. That motivation has much to do with understanding yourself, your motivations, and even your own conscience. Conscience development is explored through a creative journey involving various people both real and symbolic. A process is presented to help the reader become more familiar with his or her own conscience, which then aids in the healing and growth process so often denied in punishment and shame based ‘external’ approaches to behavior control.

Yours, Mine, and Our Rights (40 pg. PDF book) Many people fight in relationships, though they may not know what they are fighting over. This is a book about overcoming relationship struggles through a application of boundaries. This can be particularly hard to do if we can't see those boundaries in the first place. As a result, we may strive to address problematic exchanges with loved ones in routes that don't work, exhaust us, and even continue to damage the partnership. This book brings to light the reality of these simple unseen partitions and lets you know where you end and your partner begins. As you clarify your relationship boundaries, you develop a greater confidence in your own rights, and greater knowledge of your responsibilities. Such clarity of understanding lets you know when you are being manipulated or guilt-tripped into things that aren't your problem, or when you're doing so to other people. Also learn about 'mutually beneficial agreements' which outlines what to expect when partnerships are entered into – assuming such agreements have been made. Know what to expect at all times and in all situations in or outside of relationships. Know also when you are free from expectation and when you have the fundamental right to say 'no'. 

How to Love Yourself (38 pg. PDF book) Low self-esteem, self-hatred, and even self-loathing create problems which follow us around until we resolve them. Learn why self-hatred comes as a result of believing 'lies' about who we really are. This book invites us all to replace the faulty information gained over the years from the harsh world with some pretty fascinating truths about our fundamental selves; truths which predate the first 'mistakes' we ever made and the criticisms by which others later began to control us, and which at some point then formed the core of our beliefs. Discover three healing factors which innately make us 'good', including: 1) 'the five qualities' we have which put us on par with the world's greatest geniuses, 2) our inner driving needs which are essential to our survival and necessary for purposeful direction, and, 3) the little known fact about a 'road map' inside of us, which is mostly ignored despite the fact that it often shouts out our attention. Break free from the world's deceptions by understanding 'how to love yourself'. Expose yourself to your 'inner drum' to which you were meant to march. Learn what you can do to recapture this once common ability you used to have but surrendered. 

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Resolving Porn Use (28 pg. PDF book, or a 56 min audio book) explores the inherent problems that come with pornography usage, especially as it relates to relationships. Rather than attack the pornography user, or using methods of ‘guilt’ to control its use, the book walks the reader through an understanding of what makes pornography harmful and damaging, and allows the reader to come to his or her own conclusions about the side effects of pornography and all other similar addictive practices. To aid in this learning the concept of ‘Natural Law’ is introduced which exposes the reader to something felt internally and which governs the emotions of the heart and the success of all relationships. Learn how pornography damages the natural law balance required for long lasting and happy relationships. Then, follow the presented route to help pornography addicts restore and mend the damaged balance, which will result in greater peace and happiness with oneself as well as their partner.

The Parent's Book of Powers (soft bound book or PDF book, 416 pgs.) takes you, the main character,  on a journey through three separate parenting worlds. Simply put, the three parenting realms consist of: 1) a world of competition, 2) a world of lawful structure, and 3) a world of ... intuitive love. Each world is completely different from the other, with unique rules for survival and success. The rules of each of these worlds are important to know and understand as you, the parent, must make a choice on what practices, with their resulting consequences, you wish to incorporate into your own home. Whether or not you know it, you already belong to one of these worlds - and not necessarily the one you want. This journey of learning and awareness will penetrate you to the core and leave you enlightened, freer to choose your parental path, and empowered as a person in general. 

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Finding the Real You briefly reviews the topics discusses in 'The Original You' and 'Fear and Faith Unmasked', then ties them both together in a 28 pg. PDF book or a 54 min. audio book  to help you discover  your ‘real self’ through a clearly outlined comparison of 'dichotomies'. The 'dichotomies' tell you both who you are and who you aren't. Learn more about an amazing guidance system within you, which I call your 'inner compass'. This compass has the power to direct and guide you to finding and becoming your ‘true self’, but also has the power to liberate your from the deceptions of  the 'false you'. 

State Dependent Change (28 pg. PDF book or a 48 min. Audio book) introduces 'State Dependent Change', which is a key concept in allowing you to understand yourself and others better, especially when it comes to confusing changes or troubling transformations in mood and behavior. In this book learn about your innate capacity to become a different person from moment to moment, as well as learn how to remain the same despite outward chaos in the world around you. By being aware of 'State Dependent Change' you will continue the development of 'inner eyesight', such a sight grants you the capacity to see 'invisible doors' which trigger desirable as well as undesirable changes within you. Then, being aware of such doors you become freer to choose between them

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Fear and Faith Unmasked (24 pg. PDF book or a 51 min. Audio book) reflects over the often unseen world of motivation, wherein dwells our quest to satisfy needs both seen and unseen. Typically there seems to be only one route that manifests itself as the ‘way’ to satisfy our needs – in a broad way we can call that route ‘fear’. However, there is a completely different path that is seldom ever seen – in a broad way such a path can be called ‘faith’. The two motivations are compared and contrasted and you then understand why ‘fear’ is so destructive to all relationships which use its motivation. Help empower yourself by discovering the often overlooked and misunderstood power of faith, a power which is always at your disposal though you may not always perceive it.

True Apology (29 pg. PDF or 63 min. audio book) explores the nature of a 'true apology' in a world where most apologies are seen as trivial and insincere. For a meaningful apology to exist we must go beyond the perceived wrong action and dig deeper, much deeper! We must get into the heart of what makes something 'wrong' or 'right', and then understand exactly at what point we strayed into the 'wrong' territory.  To correctly do this we must enter the invisible realm of 'motivation', a world which is 'felt' more than 'seen'. Once becoming aware of that world, then we can see clearly enough to recognize 'wrong' and 'right' paths. With such knowledge then are we armed with the needed information to make the coveted and desirable 'True Apology'. We can be an example and influence of a 'true apology', but we can never force it or we become 'wrong' in the process of correcting another's mistake. 

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Welcome to my online store! Listed below are items which I have developed over the years and believe to be helpful in your growth and healing journey. I provide these self-help and counseling books at minimal cost to you through the use of a simple PayPal button which, upon clicking and purchasing the item, then directly takes you to the folder where the files are contained, from where you can download the item(s). All you have to do is highlight the file and click 'download'. The download option is found on the left side menu, or can often be obtained by right clicking the file and selecting 'download'.


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Way of Forgiveness (35 pg. PDF book) Simply put, forgiveness is learning to 'let go' of things that are holding us back which prevents us from moving forward and which keeps us prisoner to our past, the harms done to us, and to the harshness of life itself.  'Way of Forgiveness' walks you through the 'ins and outs' of 'letting go', from understanding why we can't or won't let go, to understanding why we would want to. This concise PDF book shows you a larger reality which can only be accessed through forgiveness, a reality that  involves the heart as well as the mind. Believe it or not, through forgiveness  a whole new world is opened to you; a world of wonder and even miracles; a world only open to those who have the courage to risk the rebirth that comes from letting go. Experience the life long transformative power which you may have contemplated or heard about and, then armed with greater understanding, decide for  yourself what you will do in your own personal journey of healing. 

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Setting Boundaries With Children (69 pg. PDF book, from a chapter in "The Parent's Book of Powers") helps you understand how to apply ‘Natural Law’ theory to setting boundaries with children.  The basics of ‘Natural Law’ was introduced in the prior PDF book ‘Understanding Interpersonal Boundaries’, now apply the ‘theory’ to the practice of raising children. Understand real world examples of setting and enforcing boundaries with children in different situations ranging from ‘at home’ to away from home situations. Help your children develop the confidence and respect that comes from knowing appropriate boundaries and their rights and responsibilities that go along with those boundaries.

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